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What If the School Isn't Following My Child's IEP?

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Quick Answer

Write down what the IEP requires and what is actually happening. Then ask the team in writing to review the services and explain any difference. If the problem continues, your state offers several ways to raise a concern, including a state complaint and mediation.

What This Means

An IEP is a written commitment about services, supports, and placement. When the day to day does not match the document, specific notes help. Record dates, times, service minutes, and who was involved. Ask the team for a meeting and for the progress data behind the service. A clear written record turns a frustration into something the team can review and respond to.

What Parents Should Know

Ask the case manager for a written explanation of how the service is being delivered, and whether missed sessions are being made up. Keep copies of your requests. If the school does not respond, ask about the dispute options described in your procedural safeguards notice. A state complaint and mediation are common options, and your state's parent center can explain each one.

What This Can Look Like

The IEP lists 30 minutes of reading support four times a week. Your child reports leaving the room twice a week. You email a short summary of what you observed, ask how the service is being delivered, and ask for the service log. The reply becomes part of your record.

Questions You May Want to Ask

  • How is this service currently being delivered, and by whom?
  • Can I see the service log or attendance record?
  • How are missed sessions made up?
  • Can we review this at an IEP meeting?
  • What are my options if the plan is still not followed?

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